TITLE: CEREMONIAL OR "PARTY MARRIAGE": A GOOD IDEA WHEN SEEKING A FIANCÉE VISA?
I am often asked if a man and a woman have a ceremonial or party marriage, purely for the enjoyment of the family who often cannot travel to the US for a US wedding, can they still obtain a fiance visa and have a legal marriage later in the states.
The answer is yes, But! Consideration should be given to some of the pitfalls this can raise and care taken to avoid them. First, in order to be eligible for a fiance visa both parties must be "able to marry". This means that they are not now married to anyone, that previous marriages have been dissolved or annulled or that one or more previous spouses are deceased. This also presumes that neither party has any other impediment to marriage such as illness, certain types of disability, and the like. What is an impediment to marriage will depend on the laws of the country wherein the previous marriage ceased and the laws of the state in the US wherein the parties will seek to marry upon arrival on the K-1 visa and Marriage visa.
As an aside, I am often asked "do I have to show that ALL my previous marriages ended or just the most recent ones? Setting aside the inherent humor in this question, the answer is All.
Generally speaking, the USCIS will recognize a marriage which is legally binding in the place where it occurs (also see: http://www.immihelp.com/immigration/marriage-certificate.html. ). Therefore the question is what is a legally binding marriage. It is one which meets All the criteria for a legal marriage. "Just a few will not do". Most countries require some form of government registration or sanction and or religious formalizing of the relationship. If the man and woman go through a ceremony, in effect only a family party, but do not register or otherwise formalize the marriage so that it would be binding in that country, then they are not truly married and are eligible for a fiance visa.
But be warned, there will usually be an interview before the USCIS and or consulate / embassy staff and many the prospective bride, after such a ceremony or party, has answered "yes" to the official's question about having been married... she meaning the unofficial ceremony...and at that point bang, lights out! Fiancée visa denied. So be careful. Know what to say and often and more importantly, what not to say. ....more later.



